Let’s talk a little about what BDSM isn’t, because newbies often have enormous misconceptions. BDSM isn’t domestic violence or spouse abuse: BDSM is consensual. If the sub does not consent to receive the dom’s actions, it’s not BDSM. It’s abuse. Doms and subs often speak of ‘abuse’ because it’s a way of intensifying the Outer… Read more
Periodically I wind up in a chat exchange with a boy that goes sort of like this: Sub: You look really hot in your leathers, Sir! Me: Thank you, boy! Sub: Could you spank me while I suck my boyfriend? Me: What do you think would excite me about that, boy? Sub: Well, you get… Read more
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