It’s not uncommon for kinksters to seek out therapy. Like the rest of the population, some kinksters have mental health issues. Some have are survivors of childhood abuse, others encountered abuse from partners who presented it as bdsm. Some gay men have a deep sense of shame over their sexual desires, and straight men often feel… Read more
Let’s talk a little about what BDSM isn’t, because newbies often have enormous misconceptions. BDSM isn’t domestic violence or spouse abuse: BDSM is consensual. If the sub does not consent to receive the dom’s actions, it’s not BDSM. It’s abuse. Doms and subs often speak of ‘abuse’ because it’s a way of intensifying the Outer… Read more
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